We socialize with so many people. Each finds someone or the other as a confidant. We try to pour our hearts to these chosen people. Many times the deepest secret would be shared with someone who is not our kith or kin, but a totally socially different person. We feel that our secret would be safe with them. This is a typical human nature.
If that person keeps your secret you are safe. But if you find that your secret is 'leaked' then you had it! you would be under double disadvantage. One - your most inner secret is out. Two - you have to find another 'soul'to pour your feelings!! Isn't it a difficult situation?
But there are people who are being considered as their close friends by many people. It may so happen that two of the most 'hating each other' pair may become your close friend. That is when you need to walk on a tight rope. Your talk should ensure that you are not hurting any one of these two. Both may tell some bad things on each other.
You have to be very balanced in these situations.
I am sure each one of you would have undergone such a 'torture'. Well, seriously it is not a torture. but definitely the mind gets messy. Instead we have to make it sharper so that we don't utter some uncomplimentary things on the two of our confidants who don't like each other!!!!
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