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Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Concern - up to what length?

Rains in Bengalooru. What do you do? Run for shelter when it rains? What would have told your children during October rains? 'no, no, not now. After your exams, you could get wet during summer holiday' Do you remember? you won't. but your children won't forget.when it rains during April they are bound to ask you. can you say no? you may. If your child is a teenager what are the chances that the child would listen to you? No chance!
Leave them to get wet. once they get wet, don't listen to your in-laws or anyone else to pull the child inside. The child has to get wet to its heart content and then only come inside. Then no rules should be imposed, don't go there, come here. do you think they would listen. Of course not!
They would love to see themselves in that wet dress in the mirror.
Oh, very complicated? no actually very simple.
you have to have a large heart. Leave them alone. I am sure they won't repeat. But at least once they want it to be carried out.
Leave the child to enjoy.Tell me, which is more important ? The child's happiness or the cleanliness of the house?

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